Amalan Bulan Syaaban

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Malam Nisfu Sya'aban 1431H  akan tiba pada hari Isnin (26hb.Julai 2010) malam
Selasa ( sebaik saja masuk maghrib), dimana bermulanya 15 Sya'aban 1431H.

Oleh itu, marilah kita sama-sama mengambil masa keemasan ini untuk menutup
catatan amal ibadah kita kpd Allah dengan baik dan seterusnya berazam untuk
memperbaiki diri kita untuk catatan yang baru.
Riwayat yang muktabar menyatakan Hari Nisfu Sya'aban adalah hari dimana buku
catatan amalan kita selama setahun diangkat ke langit dan diganti dengan buku
catatan yang baru.

Berikut adalah antara amal ibadah yang digalakkan di hari Nisfu Sya'aban:

1. Selepas solat maghrib (15 Sya'aban 1431H, Isnin malam Selasa)
Solat sunat nisfu sya'aban, 2 rakaat
Rakaat 1 : baca Al-Fatihah & surah Al-Qadar 1x
Rakaat 2 : baca Al-Fatihah & surah Al-Ikhlas 3x

2. Membaca Yasin 3x selepas solat Maghrib(15 Sya'aban 1431H, Isnin malam Selasa)
i) Selepas Yasin pertama : mohon dipanjangkan umur untuk beribadat kepada Allah
ii) Selepas Yasin kedua : mohon rezeki yang halal untuk beribadat kepada Allah
iii) Selepas Yasin ketiga : mohon ditetapkan iman dan Islam & mati di dalam iman &
pohonlah segala yang baik dan munafaat.

Kemudian baca Istighfar 11x & selawat 11x
Baca doa Nisfu Sya'aban (ada didalam Yasin Majmuk)

3. Baca surah al-Ikhlas 1000x

4. Berpuasa pada siangnya )

Abul Khair Al Talaqaani r.a. mengira nama2 malam Nisfu Syaaban sebanyak 22.

Antaranya yg termasyhur adalah:

1. Malam Dimustajabkan Doa
2. Malam Pembahagian Takdir
3. Malam Rahmat
4. Malam Berkat
5. Malam Pengampunan (Taubat)
6. Malam Penebusan
7. Malam Syafaat
8. Malam Penulisan
9. Malam Keagungan dan Kemuliaan
10. Malam Rezeki
11. Malam Hari Raya Para Malaikat
12. Malam Penghidupan

Antara kelebihan bulan Sya'aban:

1. Sesiapa berpuasa sehari dalam bulan Sya'aban maka Allah haramkan tubuhnya dari api neraka dan dia akan menjadi teman kpd nabi Allah Yusof d ida lam syurga.

2. Riwayat dari Osman Bin Abi Al-As, Sabda Nabi Muhammad (saw)
Pada malam nisfu sya'aban setelah berlalu 1/3 malamnya, Allah turun ke langit dunia lalu berfirman : adakah orang-orang yang meminta maka Aku perkenankan permintannya, adakah orang yang meminta ampun maka aku ampunkannya, adakah orang yang bertaubat maka aku terima taubatnya dan diampunkan semua orang mukmin lelaki & perempuan , melainkan orang yang berz ina atau orang yang berdendam marah hatinya kepada saudaranya.
Sebaik-baiknya minta ampun dengan ibubapa sebelum hari nisfu sya'aban kerana amalan kita akan terhalang dari diangkat ke langit sekiranya kita derhaka/berdosa dengan ibubapa kita.

Wallahua'alam

Wassalam.

From Dr. Fatma's tafsir Al-Quran class How to use the Surah Al Fatihah)

1. To make someone (YOUR Husband, your children) think of you all the time :
* Read the Al-Fatihah 14 times before going to sleep.

2. For terminal diseases:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 41 times and blow it in the water. Drink and take a bath with that water.

3. For the mentally ill:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 7 times while rubbing the person's head once in the morning and once at night, everyday without fail.

4. When in extreme pain:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 3 times and blow it in a glass of water and drink it.Then, read the Al-Fatihah while rubbing the area that is in pain.

5. For babies who cry at night or at any time:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 7 times while rubbing the baby's head.

6. For injury : ex: Cut, Bee sting, Bleeding, Finger got slammed by the door
* Read the Al-Fatihah 3 or 7 times, using your thumb, take your saliva from the "langit-langit" of your mouth and rub it onto the injured area.

All of the above INSYAALLAH will work with several conditions:
* Believe that the Al-Fatihah is the best "penawar" for everything
* Read it with full "khusyuk"
* Tawakal to Allah
* Use it with GOOD "niat" /intentions.

Untuk yg berhajat:
(percepatkan jodoh, memanjangkan jodoh, dikurniakan cahaya mata, sembuhkan penyakit, elakkan dari malapetaka, diampunkan dosa dan sebagainya):

* Dilakukan pada hari Jumaat selepas sembahyang Asar sehinggalah masuknye waktu Maghrib.
* duduk menghadap kiblat
* lakukannye dgn khusyuk dan yakin yg Allah akan membantu kita
* Baca lah Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim, Ya Allah berulang-ulang sepanjang-panjang kita duduk selepas sembahyang asar sehinggalah masuknya waktu maghrib.
* Masuk sahaja waktu Maghrib, di kala the first "Allahuakbar" dilaungkan, terus lah angkat tangan dan berdoa kepada Allah yg MAHA berkuasa dgn apa yg dihajati.
* Buat sebanyak 3 Jumaat berturut turut.

Mintaklah yg baik baik. Niat biar baik. InsyaAllah akan dimakbulkan oleh Allah. Wallahualam.

Notes taken from Ustazah Fatma's last lecture session taken by her closest friend, Ani:-

Untuk awet muda both internal & external.
1.Zikir - Baca
" Ya Badiyah " 1 x
" Ya Nur " 1 x
" Ya Hadi " 1 x
" Ya Allah " 3 x

Baca dan tiup ke tapak tangan dan sapu ke raut muka kita pada tiap hari.

2.Baca ayat Al Waqiah , ayat ke 35, 36, 37 dan 38, pada tiap selepas sembahyang subuh ke air dan minum. (air rawatan dalaman to look young and feel young inside)

3.Baca Al Waqiah tiap tiap hari sebelum tidur, kita akan kaya dengan ketenangan jiwa.

4.Baca Al Waqiah Ayat 19 untuk yang selalu sakit kepala. Moga-moga boleh menghilang/meredakan.

Khasiat Durian Belanda - The Soursop - the miracle fruit that can kill cancer cells

Information received in my e-mail...to be shared..





Very useful information. This fruit is freely available in Malaysia.

At least read it once to spread the message !
  
 
 Please read about this miracle fruit that can kill cancer cells 100,000 times, more effective than chemo that gave you side effects.

 Guyabano,... The SourSop Fruit

 The SourSop or the fruit from the Graviola tree is a miraculous natural cancer cell killer 10,000 times stronger than Chemo.
 Why are we not aware of this?

 Its because some big corporation want to make back their money spent on years of research by trying to make a synthetic version of it for sale.

 So, since you know it now you can help a friend in need by letting him know or just drink some soursop juice yourself as prevention from time to time.

 The taste is not bad after all. It’s completely natural and definitely has no side effects.

 If you have the space, plant one in your garden.
 The other parts of the tree are also useful.

The Next Time You Have A Fruit Juice, Ask For A SourSop.
  
How many people died in vain while this billion-dollar drug maker concealed the secret of the miraculous Graviola tree?

This tree is low and is called Graviola in Brazil , Guanabana in Spanish and has the uninspiring name "Soursop" in English.

The fruit is very large and the subacid sweet white pulp is eaten out of hand or, more commonly, used to make fruit drinks, sherbets and such.

The principal interest in this plant is because of its strong anti-cancer effects.

Although it is effective for a number of medical conditions, it is its anti tumor effect that is of most interest.

 This plant is a proven cancer remedy for cancers of all types.
  
Besides being a cancer remedy, graviola is a broad spectrum antimicrobial agent for both bacterial and fungal infections, is effective against internal parasites and worms, lowers high blood pressure and is used for depression, stress and nervous disorders.

If there ever was a single example that makes it dramatically clear why the existence of Health Sciences Institute is so vital to Americans like you, it's the incredible story behind the Graviola tree.

The truth is stunningly simple:

Deep within the Amazon Rainforest grows a tree that could literally revolutionize what you, your doctor, and the rest of the world thinks about cancer treatment and chances of survival.

The Future Has Never Looked More Promising.

Research shows that with extracts from this miraculous tree it now may be possible to:
* Attack cancer safely and effectively with an all-natural therapy that does not cause extreme nausea, weight loss and hair loss
* Protect your immune system and avoid deadly infections
* Feel stronger and healthier throughout the course of the treatment
* Boost your energy and improve your outlook on life
  
  The source of this information is just as stunning: It comes from one of America 's largest drug manufacturers, the fruit of over 20 laboratory tests conducted since the 1970's!

 What those tests revealed was nothing short of mind numbing...

 Extracts from the tree were shown to:

 * Effectively target and kill malignant cells in 12 types of cancer, including Colon, Breast, Prostate, Lung and Pancreatic cancer..
 * The tree compounds proved to be up to 10,000 times stronger in slowing the growth of cancer cells than Adriamycin, a commonly used chemotherapeutic drug!
 * What's more, unlike chemotherapy, the compound extracted from the Graviola tree selectively hunts down and kills only cancer cells.

 It Does Not Harm Healthy Cells!

 The amazing anti-cancer properties of the Graviola tree have been extensively researched-- so why haven't you heard anything about it?
  
  If Graviola extract is as half as promising as it appears to be--

 why doesn't every single Oncologist at every major hospital insist on using it on all his or her patients?

 The spine-chilling answer illustrates just how easily our health--

 and for many, our very lives are controlled by money and power.

 Graviola- -the plant that worked too well

 One of America 's biggest billion-dollar drug makers began a search for a cancer cure and their research centered on Graviola, a legendary healing tree from the Amazon Rainforest.

 Various parts of the Graviola tree--including the bark, leaves, roots, fruit and fruit-seeds- -have been used for centuries by medicine men and native Indians in South America to treat heart disease, asthma, liver problems and arthritis.

 Going on very little documented scientific evidence, the company poured money and resources into testing the tree's anti-cancerous properties-- and were shocked by the results. Graviola proved itself to be a cancer-killing dynamo.

 But that's where the Graviola story nearly ended.

 The company had one huge problem with the Graviola tree--it's completely natural, and so, under federal law, not patentable. There's no way to make serious profits from it.

 It turns out the drug company invested nearly seven years trying to
 synthesize two of the Graviola tree's most powerful anti-cancer ingredients.

 If they could isolate and produce man-made clones of what makes the Graviola so potent, they'd be able to patent it and make their money back.

 Alas, they hit a brick wall. The original simply could not be replicated.

 There was no way the company could protect its profits--or even make back the millions it poured into research.

 As the dream of huge profits evaporated, their testing on Graviola came to a screeching halt.

 Even worse, the company shelved the entire project and chose not to publish the findings of its research!

 Luckily, however, there was one scientist from the Graviola research team

 whose conscience wouldn't let him see such atrocity committed.

 Risking his career, he contacted a company that's dedicated to harvesting medical plants from the Amazon Rainforest and blew the whistle.

 Miracle Unleashed
 When researchers at the Health Sciences Institute were alerted to the news of Graviola, they began tracking the research done on the cancer-killing tree.

 Evidence of the astounding effectiveness of Graviola--and its shocking cover-up--came in fast and furious.....

 ....The National Cancer Institute performed the first scientific research in 1976.

 The results showed that Graviola's "leaves and stems were found effective in attacking and destroying malignant cells." Inexplicably, the results were published in an internal report and never released to the public...

 Since 1976, Graviola has proven to be an immensely potent cancer killer in 20 independent laboratory tests, yet no double-blind clinical trials- the typical benchmark mainstream doctors and journals use to judge a
 treatment's value- -were ever initiated..


 A study published in the Journal of Natural Products, following a recent study conducted at Catholic University of South Korea stated that one chemical in Graviola was found to selectively kill colon cancer cells at "10,000 times the potency of (the commonly used chemotherapy drug) Adriamycin.. ."

 ....The most significant part of the Catholic University of South Korea report is that Graviola was shown to selectively target the cancer cells, leaving healthy cells untouched.

 Unlike chemotherapy, which indiscriminately targets all actively reproducing cells (such as stomach and hair cells), causing the often devastating side effects of nausea and hair loss in cancer patients.

 ...A study at Purdue University recently found that leaves from the Graviola tree killed cancer cells among six human cell lines and were especially effective against prostate, pancreatic and lung cancers...

 Seven Years Of Silence Broken--it's Finally Here!

 A limited supply of Graviola extract, grown and harvested by indigenous people in Brazil , is finally available in America .

 The full Graviola Story--including where you can get it and how to use it--is included in Beyond Chemotherapy:

 New Cancer Killers, Safe As Mother's Milk,

 a Health Sciences Institute FREE special bonus report on natural substances

 that will effectively revolutionize the fight against cancer.


 From breakthrough cancer and heart research and revolutionary Amazon Rainforest herbology to world-leading anti-aging research and nutritional medicine, every monthly Health Sciences Institute Member's Alert puts in your hands today cures the rest of America --including your own doctor-is likely to find out only ten years from now.
  
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  For your information.....

 
  
  
  
   

 AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRY AND ELIMINATE CANCER, JOHNS HOPKINS IS FINALLY STARTING TO TELL YOU THERE IS AN ALTERNATIVE WAY ....

 Cancer Update from Johns Hopkins

 

 1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.

 2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person's lifetime.

 3. When the person's immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.

 

 4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.

 5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.

 6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastro-intestinal tract etc., and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.

 7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.

 8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.

 9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.

 10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.


 

 11. An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.


 WHAT CANCER CELLS FEED ON:

 a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells.. Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal,Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg's aminos or sea salt.

 b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells are being starved.

 c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.

 d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells.

 To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).

 e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties. Water--best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.


 12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.

 

 13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body's killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.

 14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence, Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc..) to enable the body's own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body's normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.

 15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor.

 Anger, unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit.. Learn to relax and enjoy life.

 16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.

Just stay healthy & cheerful.


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Ibu..oh.. Ibu...

Rasa amat terharu dengan message...sms, facebook,kata2 ucapan live serta dakapan mesra yang diterima dari anak2 semua tidak kira samada dari darah daging sendiri atau yang bersangkutan...

Ya Allah limpahilah rahmat keatas mereka semua..

Ya Allah berkati lah hidupku ini ..penuhilah hatiku ini dengan memberi sepenuh kasih sayang kepada mereka yang memerlukan ..untuk memberi mereka kebahagiaan ,kehidupan yang diredhai dan semoga mencapai kejayaan & kebahagiaan didunia dan akhirat..

InsyaAllah..Amin

Terima kasih anak2ku semua..
Mama/Ibu/Ummi sayang semua..

Diantara message yang diterima kuabadikan selamanya..

"Ya Allah,wanita yg membaca sms ini adalah seorg ibu yg cantik,kuat,sabar dan saya menyayanginya.Kau tingkatkanlah kehidupannya dgn rezeki yg berkat,kau rahmatilah setiap langkahnya dlm mencari rezeki keluarganya.Kau bersihkanla hati..kau kuatkanlah iman..kau peliharakanlah dia dari fitnah.Amin Ya Rabbilalamin .Selamat Menyambut Hari Ibu"

"Tika wajah penat memikirkan dunia,maka berwuduklah..
Tika tangan letih menggapai cita-cita,maka berdoalah..
Tika bahu tak kuasa memikul amanah, maka bersujudlah..
Ikhlaskan semuanya dan dekati Allah...
Agar tunduk disaat yang lain angkuh..
Agar teguh disaat yang lain runtuh..
Agar tegar disaat yang lain terlempar..
Untuk sahabat ku, semoga sentiasa dalam rahmat,cinta dan pemeliharaan Allah.."

Ya Allah berikanlah kekuatan kepada ibuku menghadapi segala dugaan hidup..limpahilah rahmat mu Ya Allah..

Ya Allah! Ampunilah bagiku segala dosaku dan juga dosa dua ibu bapaku dan kasihanilah mereka keduanya sebagaimana mereka memelihara dan mendidikku di masa kecil.

"BEING A MOTHER..."

After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to
take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She
said, 'I love you, but I know this other woman loves
you and would love to spend some time with you.'
* * *
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit
was my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years,
but the demands of my work and my two boys had
made it possible to visit her only occasionally.
* * *
That night I called to invite her to go out for
dinner and a movie.
* * *
'What's wrong, aren't you well,' she asked?
* * *
My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a
late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign
of bad news.
* * *
'I thought it would be pleasant to spend some
time with you,' I responded. 'Just the two of us.'
She thought about it for a moment, and then said,
'I would like that very much.'
* * *
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I
was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed
that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date.
She waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing
the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last
birthday on November 19th.
* * *
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.
'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my
son and they were impressed,' she said, as she got into
that new white van. 'They can't wait to hear about our date'.
* * *
We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant,
was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as
if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I
had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read
large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted
my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me.
A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I
who used to have to read the menu when you were
small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and
let me return the favor,' I responded.
* * *
During the dinner, we had an agreeable
conversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching up
on recent events of each other's life. We talked so
much that we missed the movie.
* * *
As we arrived at her house later, she said,
'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me
invite you.' I agreed.
* * *
'How was your dinner date ?'
asked my wife when I got home.
'Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,'
I answered.
* * *
A few days later, my mother died of a massive
heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't
have a chance to do anything for her.
* * *
Some time later, I received an envelope with a
copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place
mother and I had dined. An attached note said: 'I
paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I
could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two
plates - one for you and the other for your wife.
You will never know what that night meant for me.
I love you, son.'
* * *
At that moment, I understood the importance of
saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU' and to give our loved
ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is
more important than your family. Give them the time
they deserve, because these things cannot be put off
till 'some other time.'
* * *
Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back
to normal after you've had a baby... somebody
doesn't know that once you're a mother,
'normal' is history.
* * *
Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by
instinct ... somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.
* * *
Somebody said being a mother is boring ...
somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver's permit.
Somebody said if you're a'good' mother,
your child will 'turn out good'...
somebody thinks a child comes with
directions and a guarantee.
* * *
Somebody said you don't need an education to be a
mother.. somebody never helped a fourth grader
with his math.
* * *
Somebody said you can't love the second child as
much as you love the first ... somebody doesn't
have two children.
* * *
Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother
is labor and delivery..
somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus
for the first day of kindergarten ...
or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.'
* * *
Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her
child gets married..somebody doesn't know that
marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a
mother's heartstrings.
* * *
Somebody said a mother's job is done when
her last child leaves home.. somebody never had grandchildren.
* * *
Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so
you don't need to tell her..
somebody isn't a mother.

Pass this along to all the 'mothers' in your life
and to everyone who ever had a mother. This isn't
just about being a mother; it's about appreciating
the people in your life while you have them...no
matter who that person is

Petua Kebahagian Rumahtangga

25 tahun telah kami layari bahtera perkahwinan kami.Kami amat bahagia dengan 4 orang anak, 3 lelaki 1 perempuan.. yang kesemuanya telah dewasa...cuma belum lagi bermenantu..Diserikan lagi dengan seorang lagi anak perempuan yang kami jaga semenjak umurnya 6 bulan setelah kematian ibunya yang merupakan adik iparku.Syukur Alhamdulillah merekalah yang menceriakan kehidupan keluarga kami.


Kehidupan kami bak Fairy Tale..nak tahu ..

http://fawani.blogspot.com/2010/04/they-lived-happily-ever-after-its-not.html

memang semuanya menyeronokkan..saya ni memang sentiasa ceria..suami amat penyabar..bertanggungjawab....suami mithali lah yang selalu rakan2 saya berikan jolokan. saya pun selalu juga digelar isteri mithali sebab masa kerja dulu memang amat susah juga saya ni nak pegi outstation atau kerja lewat malam..namun yang mana perlu masih lagi menurut perintah.

Masih ingat lagi semasa satu dinner penghargaan dari majikan yang kami hadiri bersama, bos saya telah mengucapkan terima kasih kepada suami saya kerana telah memberi kebenaran untuk bekerja lewat untuk menyelesaikan projek.Sebenarnya masa tu ade juga yang saya minta kebenaran khas darinya bahawa saya hanya dibenarkan bekerja sehingga sebelum maghrib ..dan dia memang faham.Jangan ikut sahaja kehendak bos..kena beritahu keadaan sebenar tentang tanggungjawab.

Kalau suami outstation..memang selalu pun..tetapi jarang2 saya boleh ikut..walaupun kebanyakan rakan2 pasti ikut terutamanya kalau oversea (itu yang kami tak boleh nak tinggalkan anak2 sekurang2nya salah seorang mesti bersama anak2)..demi anak2 dan tugas.. 

Prinsip  yang kami amalkan :

• pada hari kerja seboleh2nya kami pulang kerumah sebelum maghrib
•  bersembahyang maghrib berjemaah bersama
•  mengajar anak membaca alquran
•  bersarapan bersama,makan malam bersama keluarga seboleh2nya apa jua bersama
• aktiviti merapatkan kemesraan keluarga - kalau dulunya semasa anak2 masih kecil bermain,,scrabble..sekarang ni dah besar2 masing2 dengan komputer je
• setiap hari jumaat suami akan balik tengahari untuk makan dan pergi bersama anak untuk sembahyang jumaat
• ingat hari2 penting..birthdays, anniversaries...
• percutian bersama keluarga..yang paling bagus adalah ..bawa keluarga mengerjakan umrah..
• berdoa dimasa2 dan tempat2 yang mustajab
• sabar, ikhlas, sayang menyayangi......

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